The mistake young people make when they want to marry - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo
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# The mistake young people make when they want to marry - Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo
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## Summary
My wife and go marry my wife had a master's degree. Had OND. You know OND? Or ordinary. Those times were ordinary. No, no, you're degree. They put it up, Mary. And nationality, nationality is Nigeria. That's what I had. OND, my half-wired master's. So, if there was any excuse for how to disable, to ...
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My wife and go marry my wife had a master's degree. Had OND. You know OND? Or ordinary. Those times were ordinary. No, no, you're degree. They put it up, Mary. And nationality, nationality is Nigeria. That's what I had. OND, my half-wired master's. So, if there was any excuse for how to disable, to disable, they were splent. Secondly, we were classmates in secondary school. So, in fact, we started off as a mid. By the time we met again, she had even taken up two or three or four steps ahead. So, ordinary, I should be a sleep in the house. You see, if it's a cultural marriage that I did, with the master's degree holder, she would slow me. I would be sleeping and I would be around there. You see, this will happen. So, let these guys come find husbands. Because usually, sometimes women blossom fast as financial in the world we live in. They are men. So, do they remember you now? They were master's degree holder. They've told the men must provide for her. What can they provide? Of my, for 20, like I said, she has not spent the first rude word. First rude word. We've not had to debate. I've not had to quit and be head to her. I've never had to quit so many years. But never. You know why? You know why? What many people are doing that they're marling anybody they like, then they want to choose the outcome of the marriage. You don't choose to. Once you choose the person you want to marry, that has already determined the outcome. So, that's why young people are making mistake. They are falling in love. Please don't fall in love. Every time people fall, they're sorry we tell them. Fall is always a negative thing. It's an involuntary negative harmful thing. Don't fall in love. Brue in love. Is there anybody that your name starts with V here? Anybody that their name starts with V? Don't be ashamed of it. It's your name V. What's your name? Vicka, come out now. Yeah, Victoria. So, you're waiting useless. Come out. If your name starts with N, N, anybody like that? Your name starts with N. Come to the stage. OK, you have V? What's your name? Quintak? Quinca. Well, that's a lot. All right, this is the audience. So, this starts with V. So, she represents a verb. What is a verb? Beautiful. This starts with N. She represents it now. What's it now? Name of animal, place or thing. See why many marriages struggle? Many people are focused on the end, the now. They want a relationship as in the now. They want a marriage now. They won't love now. But all these things, it doesn't start from the now. It starts from the where. What does she look out for is, do we have the right flow? Relationship as a flow? If we have the right relationship between ourselves as a flow, then we can now enter a relationship as in now. Many people want marriage now. That's right. If you notice the people, they focus on wedding. What they wanted. That's right. They will say, the happiest day of their life. It's the day they were gifted with marriage as in now. But that wedding day is not the marriage. It's the beginning of the doing part. That's why marriage is the doing part. What is oxygen? You know, it's had this year, not successfully wedding. What is oxygen? Is it now? What phase is what? Be doing the everyday doing. You see couples are not as a three weeks. They are not doing. You see couples are not doing the job. It's absent. But the marriage as in now is present. If you want to succeed, let this verb relationship grow into that now relationship. Let this verb love. Love is a doing what I hope you know. When people treat love as in now, that's what you're happy is like. I don't let you anymore. It was an item they used to have. There is no more present. Real love is a verb. It's a doing what they promise that you continuously do. It's not in now. It's not the p
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