The Terrifying But Alluring Nature of a Self Possessed Man.
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title: "The Terrifying But Alluring Nature of a Self Possessed Man.
#Terrifying #But #Alluring #Nature #Self #Possessed #Man #Love #Respect #circumstances #success #USA #AZ #hard #relationships #critique #gr"
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title: "The Terrifying But Alluring Nature of a Self Possessed Man.
#Terrifying #But #Alluring #Nature #Self #Possessed #Man #Love #Respect #circumstances #success #USA #AZ #hard #relationships #critique #gr"
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# The Terrifying But Alluring Nature of a Self Possessed Man.
#Terrifying #But #Alluring #Nature #Self #Possessed #Man #L
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- **Platform:** instagram
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- **Relevance:** 30/100
- **Topics:** mindset
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- **Language:** en | **Duration:** 137.208125s
## Summary
Because if a man comes along and this is terrifying to me too, I'm not even gonna lie. If I met a man today, that was very patient, that he was loving, he was genuinely kind, he was soft in his words with me, he didn't look down to me from my circumstance, he didn't expect me to explain my existence...
## Corrected Transcript / Extracted Text
Because if a man comes along and this is terrifying to me too, I'm not even gonna lie. If I met a man today, that was very patient, that he was loving, he was genuinely kind, he was soft in his words with me, he didn't look down to me from my circumstance, he didn't expect me to explain my existence constantly, like the woman said, what you've been through. If it gets out to the room that everybody thinks that it's an interview now, they have the right to question you. If he didn't treat you that way and he was behind you in your corner, the way a woman would be, but with the solutions of a man, I would be scared of that man, I would be very scared of him, because that man will expect more of you. Because the man who gives you the most compassion is gonna expect the most growth and he's gonna create the circumstances for the most growth. You have to be an exceptional person with a person like that. Women are not afraid so much of the man itself, they're afraid of the consequences of who you might need to be, but they forget that a man like that is not gonna be a tyrant over you. They're going to genuinely love you. They're genuinely going to create the circumstances for success, they genuinely care about your performance, they genuinely love you. They're scared of that because they think they don't deserve it, and they know it's gonna be hard, and they don't want to disappoint somebody. And they don't want to disappoint a man, because that man will give them a critique, and if they're genuinely in love with that man, it will break their soul in ways that I can't even explain, because it's like all those other people abuse me, and they didn't love me. But if you love me, and I disappoint you, and you genuinely love me, then I have failed as a human being, and I don't deserve life. That's how women feel. And it's not reasonable, it's not rational, because everyone makes mistakes, and everyone fails, it's also why having a good father is important, because you're gonna... you'll push you to do things that... you don't want to do, but you need to do.
## Caption / Post Text
The Terrifying But Alluring Nature of a Self Possessed Man.
#Terrifying #But #Alluring #Nature #Self #Possessed #Man #Love #Respect #circumstances #success #USA #AZ #hard #relationships #critique #growth #disappointment #capablemen #goodparents #goodfathers #fathers
## Key Claims
- Because if a man comes along and this is terrifying to me too, I'm not even gonna lie.
- If I met a man today, that was very patient, that he was loving, he was genuinely kind, he was soft in his words with me, he didn't look down to me from my circumstance, he didn't expect me to explain my existence constantly, like the woman said, what you've been through.
- If it gets out to the room that everybody thinks that it's an interview now, they have the right to question you.
- If he didn't treat you that way and he was behind you in your corner, the way a woman would be, but with the solutions of a man, I would be scared of that man, I would be very scared of him, because that man will expect more of you.
- Because the man who gives you the most compassion is gonna expect the most growth and he's gonna create the circumstances for the most growth.
## Topic Application
- **mindset**: Mindset/psychology
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