Call me crazy, but in order to attract and keep a high value man, you must be a woman of value.
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title: "Call me crazy, but in order to attract and keep a high value man, you must be a woman of value.
What sets you apart from these takers out here? And men, it’s important for you to be worth pouring in"
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title: "Call me crazy, but in order to attract and keep a high value man, you must be a woman of value.
What sets you apart from these takers out here? And men, it’s important for you to be worth pouring in"
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# Call me crazy, but in order to attract and keep a high value man, you must be a woman of value.
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## Source Metadata
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- **Relevance:** 58/100
- **Topics:** mindset, ai, culture
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## Summary
Like what man is gonna look at that and say, you know what, I do need to pay her bills. Starting Life with a Man of Modest Means, this is what you should ask yourself before you ask your man that man, because he ain't yours yet, ask yourself, what am I bringing to him to ease or make his life better? That's what value is. If you can...
## Corrected Transcript / Extracted Text
Like what man is gonna look at that and say, you know what, I do need to pay her bills. Starting Life with a Man of Modest Means, this is what you should ask yourself before you ask your man that man, because he ain't yours yet, ask yourself, what am I bringing to him to ease or make his life better? That's what value is. If you can't answer that question, you don't deserve anything yet. What has that man said in the way that you bring him value? If it's only let me take you to dinner, let me take you to eat, let me do, why does he wanna keep serving you if there's no service back? It is the law of reciprocity. What can you do to support that man? And that is the problem with these modern day women. It is all eye, eye, eye, me, me, me, take, take, take, take. You gotta be careful who you give to because takers don't know when to stop. I am tired. These people, they're ruining this generation. It's literally ruining the generation. And then little girls are glamorizing and fetishest fetish sizing. I mean, they got sexy red as a role model girl. Oh.
## Caption / Post Text
Call me crazy, but in order to attract and keep a high value man, you must be a woman of value.
What sets you apart from these takers out here? And men, it’s important for you to be worth pouring into! Relationships are meant to grow and evolve as a WHOLE! Not just on one side…
Let us know what it’s giving in the comments 👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽 #itsgivingpodcast
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## Key Claims
- Like what man is gonna look at that and say, you know what, I do need to pay her bills.
- Starting Life with a Man of Modest Means, this is what you should ask yourself before you ask your man that man, because he ain't yours yet, ask yourself, what am I bringing to him to ease or make his life better? That's what value is.
- If you can't answer that question, you don't deserve anything yet.
- What has that man said in the way that you bring him value? If it's only let me take you to dinner, let me take you to eat, let me do, why does he wanna keep serving you if there's no service back? It is the law of reciprocity.
- What can you do to support that man? And that is the problem with these modern day women.
## Topic Application
- **mindset**: Mindset/psychology
- **ai**: AI/tech
- **culture**: Culture
## Caveats
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- [[Relationships - Can't subtle guys]] — **[EXTENDS]**: The reciprocity logic here depends on direct, non-subtle communication about needs and contribution.
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