Father Josiah Trenham ''It isn't good for you to have multiple bed partners''
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title: "Father Josiah Trenham ''It isn't good for you to have multiple bed partners''
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#motivationmonday, #inspiration, #mindset, #successmindset, #positivity, #goalgetter, #dreambig, #dailymotivation, #life"
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title: "Father Josiah Trenham ''It isn't good for you to have multiple bed partners''
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#motivationmonday, #inspiration, #mindset, #successmindset, #positivity, #goalgetter, #dreambig, #dailymotivation, #life"
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# Father Josiah Trenham ''It isn't good for you to have multiple bed partners''
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#motivationmonday, #inspiration, #mindse
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- **Topics:** wealth, mindset, ai, culture
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## Summary
If you sleep with a man, but you don't end up marrying him, he's going to know you in a way that he should only know his wife. And when he marries the next woman, she's going to be insecure, especially if she sees you. She's going to think, oh my gosh, life is almost with that woman, exactly like he...
## Corrected Transcript / Extracted Text
If you sleep with a man, but you don't end up marrying him, he's going to know you in a way that he should only know his wife. And when he marries the next woman, she's going to be insecure, especially if she sees you. She's going to think, oh my gosh, life is almost with that woman, exactly like he was with me. He knows her in a way that he shouldn't know her, and it's going to, it's going to, this is why we have so much divorce in our culture. You know, when I was young, when I was born, the vast majority of marriages were virginal marriages in America. You don't have to be like some great saint. You just have to be a person of reason. Just be reasonable. It's not good for you. And Americans knew that. And so they didn't do it. We also got married younger. Those two are very connected. Those are very connected. Today, you know what the average number of sexual partners a person has when they get married? 4.5. When you join yourself, when you join yourself, intimately like that, and then you break up, and then you join yourself to another and break up, and then you join yourself to another and break up, and you join yourself to another and break up. And then a half, that's four and a half. When you finally get married to someone, how special is marriage? You've had this four and a half times, and worse, you've broken it off. Your heart's been broken, and then you recovered, and you did it again. What's going to keep you from doing it? Your first big fight when you're married. What's going to keep you from just, hey, you know what, I got over four and a half, I can get over you, and that's exactly what happened.
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Father Josiah Trenham ''It isn't good for you to have multiple bed partners''
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#motivationmonday, #inspiration, #mindset, #successmindset, #positivity, #goalgetter, #dreambig, #dailymotivation, #lifecoach, #personaldevelopment, #motivationalspeaker, #empowerment, #inspireothers, #believeinyourself, #selfimprovement, #motivationalsuccess, #ambition, #inspiredaily, #growthmindset, #motivationalsaturday, #positivemindset, #motivationvideo, #achieveyourgoals, #motivationalshort, #successquotes, #inspiringwords, #dailyinspiration, #motivationalspirit, #selfgrowth, #hustlehard
## Key Claims
- If you sleep with a man, but you don't end up marrying him, he's going to know you in a way that he should only know his wife.
- And when he marries the next woman, she's going to be insecure, especially if she sees you.
- She's going to think, oh my gosh, life is almost with that woman, exactly like he was with me.
- He knows her in a way that he shouldn't know her, and it's going to, it's going to, this is why we have so much divorce in our culture.
- You know, when I was young, when I was born, the vast majority of marriages were virginal marriages in America.
## Topic Application
- **wealth**: Business/finance
- **mindset**: Mindset/psychology
- **ai**: AI/tech
- **culture**: Culture
## Caveats
## Related Sources (Idea-to-Idea)
- **[TENSION]** [[Unconditional Love]] — Father Josiah argues love requires conditions (sexual restraint, commitment); dc6x9zcoz2k argues unconditional love is about empathy without strings attached — genuine disagreement about what love demands.
- **[CAUSES]** [[Wealth - think number predictor child abuse home]] — Father Josiah's argument about multiple partners causing divorce connects to the evolutionary psychology data showing family disruption (step-parents) as the 100-fold predictor of child abuse — both argue family structure stability matters for out
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